Confidence, Becoming a Presenter and the Distraction of Self-Esteem

Most people, at some time, have felt unsure about themselves or doubted their abilities. Often this takes the form of 'lacking confidence' or being 'under-confident'. In some people, this can become a mantra which holds them back from realising their potential. At an even more basic level, feeling under-confident can mean weaker social ties and poorer prospects in relationships, career, even in Life itself.

We've been fed the idea that good self-esteem breeds confidence, but there's a fine line between belief in oneself and narcissism. How do you stay on the right side of that line?

Becoming more confident is not an intellectual exercise, it is about taking action. You have to push yourself a little to get past the doubts, fears and uncertainties that have been holding you back. But there's no point in denying them, they are there for a reason.

Confidence is built on success, so anything that you are capable of that made you feel good at the time can bolster your sense of self-worth.
This inventory can also include your character strengths, so ask around; what do others appreciate in you?

#confidence #presentationskills #selfesteem #motivation

Links – In this episode I mention:

The VIA Character Strengths Inventory

Does High Self-Esteem Cause Better Performance, Interpersonal Success, Happiness, or Healthier Lifestyles?

How to Boost Confidence with a Vision Board.

 

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